I just returned home after a few days spent at D.’s place in Rochester. We had a good time but there were a few strained moments.
Sometimes he gets overwhelmed lately by all the crap in his life, (new job, mother in a nursing facility, bills from while he was unemployed, etc.) so he wasn’t giving me the attention I craved and deserved. I mean, come on ! I was there helping him clean his shit when I could have been doing things around my house. AND he was being a moody son-of-a-gun, and I didn’t like the fact that he forgot that I was helping him and being the perky, energetic house-elf ! I got a little pouty by the end of Saturday.
The good thing about D. is that he’s extremely observant. You don’t have to hit him over the head with something before he sees it. By the time evening rolled around he saw how sad I was. To tell you the truth I was thinking of getting back into my car and going the heck home! He came to me and put his arms around me and insisted that I tell him what was going on. I told him I felt really alone even though I was there in the room with him and that I was feeling a little used and unappreciated. He took my hand, led my to the chair, sat beside me and apologized.
He then declared the following day to be Trisha Day! He said that Sunday would be all mine to do with as I pleased! Wow! Nice! I never had whole day for me!!
Sunday morning he started the day by grinding his body against mine some really good coffee beans and screwing me brewing some delicious coffee. Then he asked me how I wished to spend MY day. I said I would love to get a little shopping in and maybe have breakfast out so that’s what we did. It was a really relaxing sort of day spent with a very attentive lover who made sure that I felt his affection for me. Later we invited the neighbors over to sit on the porch and have some delicious Mexican Lasagna I had made the day before. It was a great way to end a Sunday. Unfortunately all good things come to an end and I had to return home today.
I had to come home to an empty house which made me sad again…….
I discovered this item for sale at overstock.com and it is very disturbing!
Hug Me Pillow (bulk pack of 2)
The perfect snuggling companion, the Hug Me pillow provides comfort as well as piece of mind.
So I suppose one would only want a half a man to hug???? Ewwww!!!